My friends contact me only when they need something.
Answer the pattern, not the latest favour. A smaller yes, or a clear no, tells you whether there is a friendship left when nobody needs a lift.
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Uneven effort, teasing that stings, and friends who appear only when they need something.
Answer the pattern, not the latest favour. A smaller yes, or a clear no, tells you whether there is a friendship left when nobody needs a lift.
Treat the remark as a behaviour, not as a joke you failed to enjoy. Name it once in the moment. If it continues, reduce the access, not just the smile.